Limbo

I’m not going to lie to you, the last four months haven’t been the easiest. Since returning from NZ in January we’ve been in this awful limbo… it’s been winter, we’ve been job hunting, and we’ve been seriously curbing our spending which has meant not doing very much at all.

And hanging above our heads has been this enormous question: do we stay or do we go?

Then about a month ago hubby and I had a conversation where we realised we had both quietly come to the same answer to this question: it is time to go. What we both want the most is to… settle down.

And just like that decisions were made. We’re moving to New Zealand!

Unfortunately, nothing in life is just that simple, and there is a bit of a process ahead filling out visa forms etc. But, all going well, our anticipated departure date from Albania is September/October. This gives us one final summer to enjoy everything this gorgeous country has to offer! And thanks to some clever money management on our part, we have the funds to get us through it. Plus, a couple of job opportunities have come up which a) will give us a bit more cash and b) jump-start my brain – which has seriously slipped out of work-mode after 15 months of ‘holiday’.

I’d like to say that it’s the ‘pull’ factors of New Zealand that are dragging us away, but there are definitely ‘push’ factors here which have made our decision easier. Despite its many, many strong points, and the friendships we have built here, Albania is still very much a developing country. It can be a difficult place to live. It has such a complex culture and attitude that it’s hard to understand its psyche. It fascinates me. But it’s hard to live amongst it.

So we have five months left of our Albanian journey and we are excitedly planning our Albanian bucket-list. So much to do. So little time!

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3 thoughts on “Limbo”

  1. Hey Tania – I’ve loved reading your posts. It’s been a while since we last talked but when we visit New Zealand next year I’d love to catch up with you.

    Lucy

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  2. Super excited for you both to move to NZ!! And it’s awesome you’ve made the same decision. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed reading your blog so I hope you continue with ‘life after Albania’ as I’m sure you’ll continue to encourage others who are facing similar decisions. We were told recently, that when we return to NZ after only 6 months of travel, is when the real adventure begins – looking for a home, car, jobs, schools etc. So, all the best for the new season that lies ahead. Bless ya both heaps, Rach x

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